Have you ever wonder why you and ur partner end up in a squabble? Or having some misunderstanding about each other and things like that? There are several possbilities that couples have a hard time reciprocating expressions of love. When someone says "I need to be with you, I feel so lonely when you are not around". This sentence is good in terms that it can expressed itself but at the same time it makes them feel emotionally weak and vunerable. And how would the partner take it should his/her partner says such thing? More than often people dont use such phrases. They knw how they feel deep down yet they do not knw how to express their love in a proper way. It is sometimes difficult for them to open up and communicate love. In the end they end up saying different things. On the other occasion, people generally have a tendency to be more 'on the lookout' for hostility than love for some reason. Some do not realise about their action. When comes to argument, its not about how big or small the argument is and its not how frequent they argue, what matter most is how are they connect in an argument. When they don't connect, things wont work out. We have to remember that relationship takes alot of hard work from the very beginning. And it will continue to do so as long as ure with each other.