Have u ever wonder how ur relationship with ur partner come about? Those who are in a relationship status, why dont you try reflecting back from the start on how u created those bond and why u chose ur partner. It would be very interesting to see how you react to it and at the same time you can jot it down in a diary. There are various reasons of couples getting attracted to one another. One example, we may tend to be attracted to someone who has similiar character or habits. Let say someone who laugh at the same things as you, share the same humour, having the same interest and dislikes, coming from similiar background, someone who have the same goals and dreams and fear as well and so forth. And there are some as well who are attracted to someone who is completely different from them, often they are known as a 'unique person' because of the way they do is different and somewhat mesmerizing and impressing the others by his or her way of style. But when they got together, sooner or later the couples may get trapped in a denial of their differences, as if being different is somehow detriment their relationship. This happen quite often and they didnt see the other side of the picture that differences can be helpful. Couples need to realise that differences can be a relationship fulfilling asset, when both parties see the value of them. Many couples have misunderstood the idea of their purpose in a relationship to correct their partner. It will be a terrible mistake to think of ur partner difference in their ability/talent/style/skill as flawed. The truth is when they(couple) encounter with each other at the beginning, it was because of shared values or interesting differences. It makes no sense to eliminate those very differences you first found attracted, when instead they could be enjoyed, cherished and encouraged. For whatever you dislike in one another is quite obvious to be smth tt u dislike more in yourself. This is often true.