In time we come to understand that when we feel a need to express ourselves, it is critical that we choose the right people.. People whom cared for you in return and accept you with unconditional positive regard.... More than often we mourn over the loss or drift of frens, people whom u thought that will be close to you but eventually it never happened. Worst still, they never came back... even after u've tried. So ask urself... Is it really worth it? Yes, only for the matter of fact that you tried but to mourn? Maybe not. The world is always spinning around, and people are always moving about, the chances of meetin new people are inevitable. Sometimes we hang onto them and other times, we let it go. Its true for human nature to call someone middle of the nite, but not to talk about general life, rather its to more to expressin their feelings to the other party... A lousy day may be a small issue which u can probably take care of it, but for those bigger issue, its important for us to open up to the right person. For it shall not damage you even further and avoid additional unwanted feelings such as frustration n violation- Which is simply unnecessary.