Different things influence ur life at different times, but you have a choice in how you are influenced by things around you. Whether you choose to act that choice is entirely up to you. When you are about to make those choices- which somehow may or may not affect others and ur life, do ask urself what you are getting urself into... Ask urself if it will make you happy. This question is essential as this is probably ur main aim in life, even though sometimes it may not seem as though it is.

On certain occasion, when we decide our future for the choices that we make, we do gain something from it but at the same time we lose something that is part of us too. And to be really sure if you do not want such things to happen, maybe you can open up ur heart and ask ur heart if the choiice u want is in ur interests and will not harm anyone else. The heart never lies. If u listen attentively to ur heart it will give u the best answer. This will give u the chance for happiness.