We live in an age of excess and access – excess because we have so much to choose from and access because we have so much freedom to choose. From hi-tech toys to multi-media, high fashion to waterfront homes. This world offers us an endless array of possibilities. It’s all about momentary pleasures and staying in the fast lane.

The confines of tradition, the prejudice of gender and race, the oppression of politics - all these, though not completely removed, do not bind our feet like they did our forefathers. Today, no one has to feel embarrassed about wanting more, making more money, deserving better and buying more things. But are we happier than before? So much of our society is disposable – we see, we want, we use, we throw. More than ever, human beings are buying and using things they don’t really need but yet the buying frenzy doesn’t seem to be losing any steam.

Are we getting caught up in the wrong things? Is our focus causing us to ultimately lead empty, meaningless lives? How can we stop the rumbling and greed? The answer is love – learning to love the things and people we already have. Truly understanding them and appreciating them, discovering aspects of them that eluded us before. If you love what you have, you don’t feel the need for more. If you love what you have, you’re not going to throw something out once it gets a little worn. You’ll see the deeper beauty that lasts infinitely longer. If you love what you have, you’ll be very careful what you buy or who you choose to be with, because it has to be something you can love, not simply a trial or plaything.

Take a closer look at your possessions and relationships – your clothes, your car, your furniture, your gadgets, your partner. What can you learn to love and appreciate more? What can you recycle or maintain? Instead of dreaming about buying something new, think about how you can make the most out of what you already have. Wanting more can never make you happy. The key is loving what you have.