Most of us humans have this thinking of whether they should help others for their own satisfaction or others achievement. And worst, does helpin even benefits to some of them in the first place? The problem here is that we all have to live with other people. If we lived by ourselves, we could do whatever we want. One of life's major problems is how to take care of ourselves and at the same time be considerate of other people. Hmm but come to think of it carefully, this isnt a problem at all! But one of life's blessings instead. It will be good to give a hand to others and enjoy being generous, at the same time taking pleasure in helpin another succeed. That way, helping will just become a nature to us. And we become better people as we help others find the best in themselves. For example things that Im doing in a short n long term( Being a trainer at the present moment and pursuin to become a counsellor one fine day). Both jobs are similar and they involves in helpin others to achieve their needs and not ours. As you can see, when we help others achieve their needs, their goals, their aims. We do not only help them in every ways but we are also helpin ourselves to become a better person in life. The feeling of it will be felt once the goal has been accomplished. If you think ur client will be happy, you will even be more happier because you strive to make ur client's dreams turn to reality. That way, we kill two birds with one stone. Helpin others to achieve their needs and at the same time to make urself a better and valuable person on earth.

P/S: I will write something just for you one day... I Promise that. =)