How will you react to bad news? Can you take a moment n think of it. Put urself in a situation when something bad has struck. It could be anything... something which hurts you alot... Open ur mind and imagine them. And how do u react to them? Are you going to stay down and feel miserable or will you use some kind of a defense mechanism to protect yourself or maybe you try to understand them and solve it? What do you think? Can you cope with such tragedies? Who are you gonna turn to when you can't help urself pull out from the hole? How you react in any kind of form will show ur true being. Are you able to handle such issues and how you deal with them in the future? It's not easy when such things happen, when they do, it is important for us to know how we react to it. Its difficult I know especially when knowin the reality.. Which is why they said the truth hurts sometimes. Even worst when someone tried to distort their story and giving a vague messages. It will only leave you in a confused state. But be sure that it won't affect you in any ways. Until you have known the truth, there isnt much to be worried about. You can take them as a speculation or rumour- Because they are not the truth. None of us wants to be in situation where we feel insecure. The best is to know the truth and justify them. By doing so, we do not only learn from it, but it shows our character. If we are weak, we will fall. If we are determined, we are able to carry ourselves out. Meaning that you have a very strong character in you that is hard to break down. It totally shows that you have the courage, the motivation, the determination to handle the case and resolve them before moving on with ur life.