Couples in their early teens(18 n below) often claimed that love is blind to them. Looking back... There is no denial. The number of breakups are awfully high. The fact that love is not as easy they think. The older u are, the wiser u get... And you understand more abt love.. Just like life. The truth is our love life will only start at the age of 18 till 35- which is Young Adulthood category. Anything that is not within that age(18-35) is negligible. Of course there is no wrong in havin a r/s with someone at such a young age. But the consequence can be very high. They can be very devoted to the person they love that friends, academic, families, interest become less important to them. Its like puttin all the eggs into one basket, and when someone snatch away the basket, you left with nothing. It is important to know that our youth are important, just like our childhood(the first 5 years are impt). Because it will reflect on the personality n the way we live afterward. Love will come at later stage(young adulthood 18-35). But that doesnt mean when we reach 18, we are expert in love... Wrong. Its the time when our soul will start to look for someone to love and be loved. Part of our conscious will be seekin for someone. By now, most of us are independent enough and know what we really want- the kind of love that we are searching for. And if we are weak in our mind, we may face loneliness, isolation, withdrawal somewhere down the line... Which will result to a detached personality. And furthermore, it will cause conflict to the next stage of ur lives- The Adulthood(36-55), which is primarily more on 'care'. But rest assured, within this age, we are bound to find that special someone. Even if you dont, someone else will find you. This is what its all about in young adulthood stage... love.

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