The death of a loved one is always shocking, painful and seemingly impossible to accept. We often feel unprepared and therefore devastated by the death. Our loss is compounded by our characteristic human difficulty in separating from one another, death is a supreme separation. The circumstances of confronting death is not easy. We couldnt accept the fact of someone's death until we've seen it with our own eyes. Such tragic can lead to trauma. And the healing for grief probably takes time..days,weeks, months, even years. Its all up to every individual how well they can cope with life after such thing has happened.