People make mistakes... This happen everyday to everyone of us, even the great Einstein... And Im talkin abt genuine mistakes...Mistakes that will occur even though how much u tried to prevent it. This is natural. Sometimes our mistakes are quite acceptable by our standard and we can take it n move on. But when comes to a disastrous mistakes, people find it hard to get this over with. We always want to learn from other people's mistake. We dun want to learn from ours as much as possible cuz sometimes the pain is tooo much for us to take it. We look at people and listen to their problems at the same time give them the morale support and also learn their mistakes to ensure that didnt happen to u. We always want to be a problem free person. No1 wants to have additional problems or trauma. Imagine ur best friend died because of ur stupidity for not taking extra precaution when driving...How would u feel after that? That mistake of urs will probably live with u for the rest of ur life. And there's no point of u to moan for years or decades over it. Sometimes when the goin get tough, we must get tougher cuz life goes on no matter what happen.