The key to a healthy relationship between parents-children, bf-gf, colleagues, employer-employee, student-teacher, helper-client,friends and so on is comunication. How honest you are, how you talk with each other, how we handle our conversation, how much of empathy listener you are, how much you are able to express feelings, what you think they are feelin, what they think you are feelin and the list goes on and on. The thing is honesty comes with a good essential for a genuine communication and understanding. Without honesty and understandin between peers, the 'I'm right-you are wrong' syndrome will flourish. If your feelings are not shared clearly, hidden secrets that leak to conflict, then it will act like quicksand, pulling you both down rapidly. Blaming others or yourselves does not bring reconciliation, solve the matter nor will come to an end of the conclusion. Healing comes by openin and expressin ur heart to compassion so it will be shared and to listen. If such honesty and open communication was easy in this society then probably we dont have to see fighting, battering, families cut ties, r/s breakdown, delinquency, prejudice, misunderstanding and loneliness.