I would like to conclude something about guilt and men. Im not really gonna talk everything about it mind u that cuz if I do, I think it would take me hours to finish the topic(Haa). So just a basic understanding of it that all. Well historically, men, with control over resources are most likely to have the luxury to be romantic than women. Im not being a sexism here but these are facts. How many times have men do things continuously nice and romantic to women? Plenty I have to say. If that isnt enough evident, then think of marriage. Yes.. Generally its the man who propose to the woman. With Valentine's Day around the corner, men will have something that will be planned nicely for the upcoming event. But of course let's give credit to women cuz they too at the same time are plannin to do the same. But let's not talk abt that for now. As much as we can observe in this society now, it is still very hard to predict what is in the guy's mind. But I noticed one thing for sure. Men do have expectation and smth in return. How much? It depends on individual. Some expect alot of expectation. More than often the man tries to be very romantic and shower the woman with gift and so forth. In return, he would of course wants the female to be his companion or partner. Generally,its about winning her heart. Some men happen to be very predictable of their action by thinking that they would get the women by being romantic n shower her gifts but when tt dont happen, they will feel a sense of depression, anger and also guilt. Which brings me to another point of the 2 types of men out there:

1st Type - When things don't happen as it being planned, the man would understand the situation/matter and will probably be very much content for what he has done even though he has not achieve it........... whereas

2nd Type- They would feel guilty and blame the woman for not giving him a chance. This of course is a sign of selfishness. Needless to say, the male has very high expectation from the start and only interested in gettin together with the woman.