I must have known myself better to stick to my principle that Ive created for myself. For awhile, for that moment of time, I forgot abt that. Feeling terrible isnt that bad but breaking one of the principles of my own does. I've always remind myself that is not really good to assume on things and on people. We tend to get it wrong in the end when we assume. And for that, I was wrong for doin so. It shoot me back knowin that I could have ensure things in life rather than assuming it. But its has been done and there is nothing much to look back and feel bad about it. This has been base by poor judgment and management of plan. Smth which can be avoidable in the future time.

On the other hand, there are couple of issues that I would like to talk about. 1st thing is regarding loneliness. 2nd is about guilt and last but not least relationship. But I'll talk abt guilt and relationship some other day. So let's start talking on the issue loneliness first. What do you have to say about loneliness? We all have to agree on one thing, that is loneliness comes as part n parcel of our lives. We need to be alone or have solitude at some point. But this is not the case. I'm talking abt unused opportunites and poor management which result to loneliness. But you might ask yourself, what unused opportunities? what poor management? If you broaden ur mind and look deeper, you can actually pick those blindspots. Let's put an example, for instance a couple relationship. The guy wants freedom and balance between his friens, family and also his time with his partner so all could get an equal share of time. But the gal doesnt want that, fearin that if he chose to do tt, she would feel left out and being alone. All she wants is him by her side whenever is possible.

However, she didnt take notice of her action. She decided to argue with her partner for that. Even went to the extend by assuming that he has lack of love towards her. If you can see, this is a very clear-cut situation. If we have known how to deal with our management effectively, things like arguin and conflict can be avoid in the first place. So this has shown tt problem is not with the guy but its the gal. All she could think is when her partner is not with her, she will be alone and fear for the worst. We all knw tt loneliness is the last thing we want in life. But as helper, we can point out her unused opportunites that she has all along. She can make her time useful n fruitful by making her own plans and goals. She can set her sight on helpin out on a charity, be a volunteer in sch or work, she could hang out with her own group of friends and do their normal usual things that gals do everyday. Even when friends are not available sometimes, there are always family. She could make that opportunity to make things even greater for herself and her family. Those opportunities are always there. Its whether u use them wisely or not. There's no such thing as..."I need my partner 24/7 by my side". Ever wonder then how did u survive even before knowing ur partner? This has also clearly become too dependent and comfortable. Which can lead to unhealthy relationship in future.