I'm sure by now, some or even many of us have heard ppl claiming that they had a difficult life in the past. Maybe bcoz they might up grew up with an alcoholic parent or maybe some were being abused when they were a child while some may just use excuses of being adopt or lack of love and others might claim that they were being neglected by their parents. Sadly, ppl are still talkin n dwelling abt it. To remember abt the past isnt wrong. Its alright actually, and it will be healthier n gd in our mind that if we review the past and try to heal from it. But it wont be gd n productive if we still get stuck in the past living in a present. All of us by now should have experienced rejections,tragedy within the family members,loss and feelings of insecurity. The only difference now though, in who is successful and who isnt. That is the only thing that separates it.And what do I mean by that? Its doesnt based on what we have or havent been through in life. What matter is what we want,can and will do with based on our past experiences. This is what makes all the differences in the world. I believe there are 2 set of ppl on this earth.They are either optimistic or pessimistic abt life. One who is willing to take the risk and climb to the very top of the mountain seeking for every opportunities out there while some will just start to look for excuses for "why not", "can't", "because," anything tt avoid the challenge in life. Come to say tt Life is wonderful, but it is indeed challenging. When meet against the greatest challenge in life, you can see that the pessimistic type will run and hide while the optimistic ones will open their minds to the nx level that they bring with them n strike forward with an attitude of optimism, self-belief n confidence in their ability to handle the task. All of us are here for a reason. We are destined to be somebody in the future. And its all up to every individual whether we want to achieve that.