When the first time you meet someone, the 1st thing and moment that you will form is an impression in your mind abt that person. How they talk, how they dress, how they walk and so forth. Correct me if I'm wrong but like the old sayin says "1st impression is important". From there you will catch every lil points. And from there ur decision on that person will be judge on every single detail that whatever senses into you. But remember you are not the only one observing it, cuz the other party is doing it the same. Cuz don't think you re the one doin all the judgment. You are an idiot if you have been thinkin all along that no1 is observing about u too. Our action may speak alot about ourselves same as how u perceive yourself. And how you react to others say more abt u than they do abt others. You see, you cannot really love or hate something abt another person unless it reflects smth that you love or you hate abt yourself. How can u hate or love someone when u dunno absolutely notthing abt them...rite? Its normal that we are always drawn to those who are like or has similar interest or personality as u. Its where u are at the best comfortable situation. And as for hatred, its the same thing, we tend to dislike those who show the aspects of things that we dun like in life. All these about viewin n observing of other's action are through our past experiences that we have encountered. Never want to repeat the history again.

P/S: Happy 20th Birthday Bud!